I was a mess. I was crying daily, having a hard time holding it together.
Kids are not just watching us they are sensing us.
Kids are watching more closely than we possibly imagine, are picking up the vibrational frequencies we give off. Picking up toys may be a fight but picking up opportunity, weakness, negativity and heartache are their specialty.
Have a fight with your spouse, your mom isn’t doing well, your in laws are driving you crazy, you are stressed about money or your struggling with finances. Kids have their finger on the pulse of all these things. Kids senses are naturally heightened. Kids are sponges on ever level.
Kids are watching the way you behave with difficult neighbors, the way you act toward the postman, the way you talk to your spouse, the way you interact with your friends and the way you treat YOURSELF!
Your actions are teaching your children way more than your words ever could.
I never really thought too much about the way I treated myself. For one I was too busy. Secondly I thought my time would come. I was busy always taking care of everyone else. I mean that’s my job as the mom right. I need to make sure food is in the house, clothes are washed, and the house is clean.
But the unfortunate truth was that while I was watching out for everyone else no one is watching out for me.